Attraction depends on the Action!

Life, love, and the pursuit of happiness those are the liberties that we are all striving towards individually, and as a group. These were attributes that became building blocks for who and what we are today. These three ideas are destinations that we all need to continually focus on and strive to obtain. My fondest desire is to help you find that all three of these interrelate. My objective is to show you that women and men can find a common ground at that crossroad of love. So I will be continuing this train of thought through many of my columns, all the while addressing any individual issues or questions that you my readers decide to ask.

Last time I talked about the issue of Attraction and how it operates within my three fold Laws of Love. Once again I would like to thank Anna for being courageous and fearless in her quest for critique. I feel that we covered the base issues of Attraction and how these apply to you condensing wants and desires into a destination. So the follow up to this process is going to be the most beneficial, and that is the application of Action!

Even the word used to get the ball rolling on a Hollywood movie set is Action! This is a proclamation of intentions meeting movement towards the end result. The actions we take in life make the memories we so fondly cherish, or the lack of action leaves us with regret.

There are many patterns of action surrounding almost every facet of life. Young men today are raised thinking that becoming an Action Hero is one of the most amazing things they could ever do! However, where in the movie does it show that with out the action there is no Hero? Superman sprang into being when action was required, and then digressed into Clark Kent when he wanted to blend in to the unseen world.

Actions are powerful intentions that you can utilize to gain powerful changes in your current situation. Love is not an exact, nor is it given to you with a promise of longevity. Love is the presence of commitment, happiness, courage, intimacy, trust, communication, and the blending of two independent persons. Now this blending process requires a lot of action, and you must work at it constantly. If you join a gym does your body change? If you think about your list of who you desire in your life, does that bring them to you? Yes it can, but more than likely it is the actions you put behind your attraction that will bring that special someone. Also, for my wonderful women readers taking action gives you a form of confidence, and increases your choices so you will not be caught settling.

Your search for someone special will involve a few different forms of action. The first of these forms will be inner action. This is where you the person in question must assess the damage done from the past, and who the person is in the present. Once you have figured out the highs and lows of the past, you can incorporate those into your plan of action. For example, the places or people you interacted with did they help you or hinder you? Find the positives in your past and apply them to the present. I am not saying dwell on the mistakes you made, or the bad relationships. I am asking you to find the great points of anything that carries a fond memory with it, so you can then see what made that work for you. This will be a powerful tool to prevent you from repeating mistakes, as long as you can at least be honest with yourself! Remember the truth can hurt, but it is the truth that will set you free!

After you have figured out those past areas you should incorporate, and the ones you should never repeat; it’s time to move to the right now! Go to the mirror and take a long hard look at yourself. Write down what you see whether it is good or bad. What makes you tick? Do you really know what you want? What will make you happy? What type of person are you looking for in life? These are just a few questions you can ask yourself to help you along the way to embracing today! In order for the law of Attraction to really take hold in your life you need to apply it to all areas not just your dream guy or girl!

For example, if you feel uncomfortable with your physical appearance figure out what you can do to remedy this. Perhaps it is a new hair style, eating healthy, working out, or even standing up straight with a smile on your face. You need to love yourself first and foremost. So be honest with you, believe in yourself, and remember like attracts like. So if you love yourself, you will soon be attracting that other half that will love you just as much. Often women allow the stereotypes of today’s standards to say this is what beautiful is, and that is a lie. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and the first person to behold your beauty needs to be yourself!

Now you are on the right road to establishing action towards that much awaited desire. My goal is to empower you where you are weak, and clarify where you are cloudy. This should also be your credo for creating the type of action you will need to find someone special. Actions will always speak louder than words! So what are your actions truly saying about what you want? In the last column we wrote what you wanted based on attraction, and this week we are learning how to act on it! For without action there can be no attraction! You may want to write a book, but until you sit down and write it will never happen! I am really looking forward to covering even more levels of action with you in the future. I hope that some of these will help you realize where you are today, and what you want! Also, the person you see in the mirror is how we see you. Bring yourself to the place of accepting yourself, anticipating changes, making actions to increase your appreciation for yourself, and the attraction will start attracting! Feel free to send in questions or comments that may be posted here!

Ryan@ask-ryan.com

Ryan Keys-Mathews