The Three A’s of Action!

Last time we were talking about Action, and how it pertains to the Laws of Love. I will recap just a bit so that we are on the same page when it comes to setting action in to motion. I have been talking about how Attraction, Action, and Satisfaction make up my Laws of Love. Attraction is the first step of drawing out guidelines to make your dreams a reality. In the words of Richard Bach, “You are never given a dream without also being given the power to make it true.” The power is in your ACTIONS! So Attraction gathers our dreams so that our Actions can propel us in the direction to obtain them.

Many of you may be fans of the “Secret”, but the one area it fails to cover is action planning. Sure you can sit at home with a mindset or dream board to proclaim checks will roll in versus bills. However, I believe that Attraction is a merely the catalyst to creation, and that is where your actions become magnetic. If you hold a magnet in your hand it still has magnetic properties, yet only when it is next to the metal does it attract. So you must be like a magnet on the move coming closer to the objects you wish to draw closer to you. A Chinese proverb states, “I hear and I forget, I see and I remember. I do and I understand.”

There are many steps in the action process of my Laws of Love. I covered Inner Action, which is the core step to uncover past and present issues that may be holding you back from attracting the things you want in life. This is a self inventory of your habits, where they come from, and how you can change them to better suit your future path. I would also like to point out that once you have determined your areas for improvement lay out a plan to correct them, but do not dwell on them. Energy is like a laser it will go where it is directed. So be careful not to pin point your faults to such a degree that you will deconstruct the entire process of reaching the new you! So find, focus, fix, and forge ahead to the next form of action!

The second form of the Action process relies on the 3 A’s; Appreciation, application, and adherence. This may seem a bit overwhelming to you at first, but I assure you that they compliment each other all at once. First and foremost is, Appreciation. This is a point of being able to not only understand who you are, and where you come from; but being able to view these areas as strength of character. How you appreciate yourself, and your accomplishments to date. Let’s give yourself a pat on the back for writing down what you want out of a mate, and life!

Application is the art of applying the knowledge you have gained by visualizing your areas of Attraction and inner action. For instance, application is how you combine your strengths from the past and present to obtain a new found self esteem. This should scream to the universe, “Yes I’ve made mistakes! I will be a creator and not a spectator any longer!”  The biggest part of any application is to put your ideas into action! So this application phase is the key ingredient to the Action process! Actions speaking louder than words to my knowledge have never been a big “Secret”, but the secret ingredient would be applying the attraction with Action to get a reaction!

Then the follow up form to this three fold method of action would be Adherence! What is adherence? It means to follow a set of plans or rules faithfully. Also, it can be deemed as holding fast to a direction, or sticking to a set of guidelines laid-out before you. This is the glue to the Laws of Love! Once you have developed strong ideas of what you want, assessed who you are, and what you need to do; you must adhere to the plan! This will require a certain level of faith, it was said that, “If you have the faith the size of a mustard seed, you can move mountains!” I know this to be true not only from others, but my own daily victories. My slogan in life is “All you need is a Mustard Seed!” The mustard seed is one of the smallest seeds out there, yet grows in to one of the largest of garden plants.

Every time you see a break through or a confirmation that things are moving in the right direction celebrate it, and write it down! Coincidence is a sign of creation believe that you are on your way. This is the three fold process of Attraction becoming deliberate Action. So once you know what you want, put yourself out there so you can make it happen! Go to the store, the gym, take trip, or join a group of like minds to start opening opportunity for your actions to start attracting!

I appreciate your support, and your thank you for allowing me the opportunity to share my thoughts on love. The only authority on changing yourself is you, but the up side of this is that you know yourself like no other! Next time I will finish up the Action process, and help you to help yourself!

Ryan Keys-Mathews