“Adherence: The Three Keys to adhering to your action plan!”

The phrase, “Don’t just sit there, do something!” applies to the core of what I am trying to convey. The Law of Attraction is only the foundation for the direction of your dreams, without action your attraction is left to fate. Yes destiny is a divine source of inspiration, but perspiration combined with inspiration equals success! Even a person that wins a $300 million dollar lottery must go out and buy the ticket! Sometimes it only takes the smallest of actions to reap the largest of rewards, but action is a necessary catalyst in this chemistry of Love!

I was posed with a question regarding my Laws of Love: adherence process. This is the reader’s comment regarding that subject:

“Ryan, I want to tell you that I liked it a LOT. It's analytical, honest and profound. I have a few pointers though. I absolutely agree with your interpretation of Inner action, appreciation and application...You hit the nail on the head! I do wonder about adherence...I'm afraid that this sounds way to methodological to follow a set of rules! It sounds like a diet, and I just don't want to think of love that way. It's suppose to be chaotic, inconvenient, intense and UNCONTROLABLE. 

Could you make it a bit more exiting as it’s supposed to be? In another words maybe you could find a balance between the three factors: PLANING, EXCITMENT AND FAITH?

I am humbly expressing my opinion, and hope you'll take it with a grain of salt.

Nancy”
 

I appreciate you taking your time to provide me with the most priceless form of critique, the readers! So I should take this as lightly as a grain of salt? I dare say that anyone’s feelings should ever be taken lightly. I have spent some time thinking about your suggestions, and how they relate to the overall message I am trying to get across to you, my readers.

I’ve covered much of my Laws of Love in brief due to the limit of space offered to a magazine columnist. I do have a book in the works that will cover all of these ideas, and principles in depth so that there is no misunderstanding.

The Adherence which I spoke about in my Action process relates to everyone being accountable to themselves, and their own goals. It’s not to be viewed as a diet, but as a guideline. The basic principle would fall back to an age old proverb of sowing and reaping.

Try to not look at it as a set of rules to follow, but more like a cause vs. effect standard. For example, if you walk blindly across traffic you may get run over, at least in theory. You are not adhering to anything you are not in agreement with, as per your own action plan, or your Law of Attraction desires. You are merely telling yourself that you want a particular outcome, so these are definite steps that will advance your cause to making this a reality.

I thought about it over a couple of weeks, and then it struck me. The key was not to answer the actual question at hand, but to give the person asking it a way to find the answers for themselves. So the hunt was on to put a lot of wisdom in a quick process. Short and sweet, but so effective you could find a dependable answer without looking to outside sources. I came up with three Key questions you can ask yourself at any given time, to help you decide if you are adhering to your action plan.

How many times have you made a dumb decision, and then in hindsight you see exactly what you should have done? Adherence is about using your foresight to see the solution. There are three quick and powerful questions you can ask yourself if you feel confused about an upcoming decision.

First ask yourself, “Does it help me?” Then ask yourself, “Does it hurt me?” Finally ask yourself, “Does it hinder me?” These are three quick and easy questions that will allow you to give yourself feedback for the choices you feel may be against your action plan. If it can help you then full steam ahead! However, if it can hurt you or hinder you I would seriously rethink the decision you are about to make. Many of us are aware of the power associated with the “Law of Attraction”, so this will help you stay on track. These three simple questions can save you from making a bad choice in the near future. I’ve started doing this in my own life, and I’m surprised at the results!

I hope that is clears the air about my third and final process in the Action phase of the Laws of Love. Remember love yourself first and foremost, but to get love you must give love. Many of you may be wondering what you do when finally get what you want, well that will have to wait until next time when we go over the Satisfaction segment of the Love Laws! Until then may life, love, and happiness surround you and your decisions.